That is an age-old
question. Cave men had it made. They firmly believed in kidnapping and taking
their date to a filthy cave out in the middle of nowhere. Those were what was
known as the good old days. Now days first date destinations and plans are a
little trickier. First let’s cover where NOT to go on a first date.
The old standby of
dinner and a movie is a really poor choice for a first date. How will you get
to know the lady if you are sitting in a darkened theater with a movie being
shown? If you choose the movie, there is probably going to be a lot of frantic
car chases and a lot of blood involved. Neither are conducive to creating a
memorable evening.
Also, don’t take your
date to your parent’s house! She will know right away that you are a mama’s boy
and you will never see her again.
Don’t take your date to
a sleazy bar with a motel out back. You will scare the poor woman to death. She
will jump out of the car and hitchhike back to town believing that she would be
safer with a burly truck driver than with you.
Now, some good first
date ideas are:
Begin with a simple
lunch or coffee date.
You want to keep the date casual so suggesting
meeting up for lunch or coffee can be a good start. This way, if the date
didn’t go so well, you can end the date there but if you enjoy each other
company, you have the rest of the day to spend getting to know each other
better.
Here are some ideas of
where to go if the lunch or coffee date tells you’re there is some good
chemistry happening:
If it is the season, an
amusement park or a theme park is a good first date idea. It doesn’t matter how
old you are, we can all be big kids at heart. There’re so much you can do at
amusement parks and theme parks that most likely you will forget about the
dating pressure and just have fun.
Most well populated
areas have an array of museums covering many different subjects. Visiting one
that is dedicated to something that you have in common with the woman is
another good first date idea.
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