Communication is such an important factor in all
relationships, business and personal alike, that it should come as no surprise
that we need to discuss it here as well. What is communication, after all? It
is the two-way interaction that occurs, both verbally and non-verbally. What is
said with actions is as important, if not more so, than what is said with
words. But here we're going to focus our attention on the importance of verbal
communication and what it will mean for your relationship. Keep in mind that
when I talk about how things affect your relationship, I'm mainly concerned
with your success in the realm of seduction.
Communication with words is something we all do on a daily
basis. But, just like when you're asked to give an impromptu speech, being
asked to communicate in a particular situation just makes many of you cringe,
lock up, and find yourself at a loss for words. Why? Mainly because when you
have to think about what to say, you suddenly become concerned about what
you're saying. But if you just let it happen without any expectations, somehow
everything works out a whole lot better.
That being said, think of your past relationships and where
communication failed you. Was it something you said in a particular
conversation that you came to regret later? Or was it something she said that
you either treated as unimportant or simply didn't hear at all? Or could it
have been a time when you should have said something to her, but didn't, and
the results were equally regrettable? Surely all of these have happened to
nearly everyone at one time or another. The trick is to not let these past
failures define how you communicate now and in the future of your current
relationship.
Talking is something we all think about when we hear the
word 'communication'. But, unfortunately, that first thought is the wrong one
if you're looking for a good relationship with potential for romance. Talking
will get you nowhere, and worse, it may cause things to fall backward or even
to fall apart. When you talk, you're expecting someone else to listen.
But what about the listener? When does she get the chance to
be heard? That's why it's so much better to change your view from one of simply
talking, to one where you see communication as the carrying on of a conversation.
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