Sometimes, knowing what you’re looking for in a woman can be quite
difficult. And if you’re one of them, don’t get discouraged. It truly isn’t as
difficult as you may think to find the right woman for you.
The very first thing you must do is resign to be very open-minded. You
need to cast aside all the standards that you may have been using and start
from scratch. Forget what all your
buddies say is attractive. Never mind what you see in the lingerie commercials
on television. You’ll want to start with the very basics of what makes two
people compatible, not two lovers, but two people in general, in order to find
what kind of person works for you.
In order to find out what you are really looking for in a woman, you
need to take the time to consider the complete person, not just the body. You
need to take into consideration things like personality, interests, ambition
and then looks. You’re probably wondering why I listed those traits in the
order I did.
If you consider looks first it will tend to cloud your judgment on all
the other traits. Men tend to be very easily visually stimulated. For this
reason, what excites them at first sight tends to be what they think they want.
However, if you consider what you want in the other areas, the looks may
not be so important. You may find that a woman with a great personality that
likes football and racing as much as you do and who takes her career as a human
resources director seriously, but who happens to be a brunette with only an
average build, would suit you just fine. Personality, intelligence, ambition,
sense of humor and interests play a much bigger role in attraction than just
physical appearance.
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